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The best G spot dildo for squirting is a curved, firm toy you can rock slowly against the front wall of the vagina. For most people that is the njoy Pure Wand, for even more weight the Le Wand Arch, and for a softer, lower priced option the Tantus Charmer in silicone.
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Price bands in US dollars: $ under 50, $$ 50 to 120, $$$ over 120.
njoy · stainless steel G-spot wand
An 8 inch steel arc weighing about 1.5 pounds, with a 1.5 inch bulb at one end and a 1 inch bulb at the other. The weight does the work, so a slow rocking motion keeps steady pressure on the front wall without tiring your wrist.
Le Wand · stainless steel G-spot wand
A crescent of 316 stainless steel at about 1.87 pounds and 7.9 inches, with a rippled, tapered end and a flattened tip. The extra weight and the ridges suit people who already know they like strong internal pressure.
Le Wand · stainless steel G-spot wand
A long curved hoop, 10.3 inches end to end and about 1.39 pounds, with a small 1 inch bulb and a larger rippled teardrop end. The length makes it easier to reach the right angle on your own.
njoy · stainless steel G-spot wand
The same 8 inch length as the Pure Wand but with slimmer 1 inch and 0.75 inch tips and much less weight. A sensible way to find out whether steel works for you before paying for the heavier models.
Tantus · silicone G-spot dildo
A slightly curved, ridged silicone dildo, about 6.8 inches long and 1.4 inches wide, built to hit the G-spot on every stroke. Softer and warmer than steel, and it works with a harness for partner play.
A G spot dildo for squirting does one job: it holds firm, steady pressure on the front wall of the vagina, a couple of inches in, for as long as you need. That is why heavy stainless steel wands have such a reputation here. The weight presses for you, so you can rock the toy slowly instead of thrusting, and your arm does not give up before your body is ready.
Put a towel or a waterproof sex blanket down before you start. A toy that finally hits the right spot is not much use if you tense up at the moment the urge arrives because you are worried about the mattress.
| Model | Material | Weight | Length | Tips | Price band | Best for |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| njoy Pure Wand | Stainless steel | About 1.5 lb | 8 in | 1.5 in and 1 in bulbs | $$$ | Most people who want firm pressure |
| Le Wand Arch | 316 stainless steel | About 1.87 lb | 7.9 in | Rippled end and flat tip | $$$ | Maximum weight and texture |
| Le Wand Hoop | 316 stainless steel | About 1.39 lb | 10.3 in | 1 in bulb and rippled teardrop | $$$ | Easy reach on your own |
| njoy Fun Wand | Stainless steel | Much lighter | 8 in | 1 in and 0.75 in tips | $$ | A first steel toy |
| Tantus Charmer | Silicone | Light | About 6.8 in | Ridged, 1.4 in wide | $ | Softer feel, harness play |
Price bands: $ under 50, $$ 50 to 120, $$$ over 120 US dollars. Le Wand often sells below its list price, and stock changes, so check the brand page before you buy. Specifications come from each brand's own product page.
We compared the published shape, weight, length, tip size, material and care instructions of each toy on the brand's own page. We did not run lab tests, we do not give scores, and brands cannot pay to move up this list. Every pick was checked against the same points:
We left out vibrating toys on purpose. If you want vibration inside, read our ranking of the best G spot vibrators instead.
Many people who squirt describe the build up the same way. It starts with steady, rhythmic pressure on the front wall, a fullness that feels a lot like needing to pee, and then a release when they stop holding back. Vibration is not what makes that happen. Pressure and rhythm are.
A firm dildo gives you exactly that, without the buzz that some people find numbing after a few minutes. It also leaves your other hand or a second toy free for the clitoris. A common setup is a steel wand inside and a wand vibrator outside, and our list of the best wand vibrators covers the external half of that pairing.
Steel has one more advantage. It holds temperature. Run it under warm water for a minute before use and it stops feeling cold, or chill it for a sharper contrast. Neither changes how it works, but warm steel makes the first minutes far more relaxed.
| You want | Better choice |
|---|---|
| Heavy, steady pressure with little effort | Steel (Pure Wand or Arch) |
| A softer, warmer feel | Silicone (Tantus Charmer) |
| To use any lube, including silicone lube | Steel |
| A dildo that fits a harness for partner play | Silicone (Tantus Charmer) |
| The lowest price | Silicone (Tantus Charmer) |
| Temperature play | Steel |
Steel works with water based, silicone based and oil based lube, because nothing soaks into it. Silicone toys need water based lube, since silicone lube can break down the surface over time. Our best lube comparison sorts the options by base.
A G spot dildo does not need to be big. The spot sits on the front wall roughly one to three inches in, so length is mostly about grip, and width is about comfort. If you are new to internal toys, the smaller bulb on the Pure Wand, the 1 inch bulb on the Hoop or the slim tips of the Fun Wand are the places to start. The 1.5 inch end of the Pure Wand and the Arch's fuller end are for once you know you like a fuller feeling.
Weight is the part people underestimate. At 1.5 to 1.9 pounds, a steel wand presses noticeably on its own. That is the point, but it also means you should move slowly at first and never let it drop onto a hard floor or a tiled shower.
Our step by step guide on how to squirt goes deeper on the build up and the moment of release.
Wash steel and silicone with warm water and mild soap after every use. All four steel picks are listed as dishwasher safe, and Le Wand says its steel can be boiled to sanitize. Tantus lists the Charmer as boilable and dishwasher safe too. Dry the toy fully and store it in its pouch so it does not knock against other toys.
Le Wand says the Arch is not for anal use. Never move any toy from anal to vaginal use without washing it first. Stop if anything hurts, and if you have ongoing pelvic pain or leak urine in daily life, see a gynecologist or a pelvic floor physiotherapist.
For most people it is the njoy Pure Wand, a curved 8 inch stainless steel wand of about 1.5 pounds. Its weight keeps steady pressure on the front wall while you rock it slowly, which is the kind of stimulation most often linked with squirting. The Le Wand Arch is heavier, and the Tantus Charmer is a softer, cheaper silicone option.
A dildo can make the right stimulation easier to keep up, because it holds firm pressure on the G spot area without tiring your hand. It does not guarantee squirting. Arousal, relaxation and letting go when you feel the urge to pee matter as much as the toy, so give yourself time and protect the bed.
Steel is the more popular choice for squirting because it is heavier, so it presses with less effort, and it cannot shatter if dropped. Glass is also nonporous and smooth but lighter and more fragile. Both hold temperature and work with any lube, so the choice comes down to weight and durability.
It is worth it if you want firm G spot pressure and plan to keep the toy for years. Steel does not wear out, it works with any lube and it sanitizes easily. It is not the best buy if you are unsure about internal play or dislike heavy toys. The lighter njoy Fun Wand is a lower priced test.
Insert the smaller end with the curve pointing toward your belly, about one to three inches in. Then rock the handle in small, slow movements so the tip presses and releases the front wall. Do not thrust in and out. Keep external stimulation going and relax your pelvic floor when the urge to pee builds.
A beginner does better with a slim tip around 1 inch wide than a large bulb. The G spot sits close to the entrance, so length matters little. The njoy Fun Wand, the small end of the Pure Wand or the 1 inch bulb of the Le Wand Hoop are comfortable starting points.
Educational content for adults, not medical advice. If you have pain, bleeding, or leak urine outside sex, talk to a gynecologist, urologist or pelvic floor physiotherapist.
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